Reconciliation an Important Thing, But Not THE Important Thing
By Steve Beckow
Posted on April 10, 2024
One of the mistakes the friends and family of folks caught in a cycle of conflict often make is to mistake reconciliation – getting back together (step 8) – as a resolution of the conflict.
We reconcile and they all applaud, as if reconciliation is THE most important thing.
No, if nothing ever changes, then exiting the cycle of conflict is THE most important thing and reconciliation – if nothing ever changes – will likely not prove to be the enduring answer.
The fact that “nothing ever changes” seems to be one...
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Parts Work and Forgiveness
Tunia via channel A. S.
Posted on May 6, 2023
My dearest brothers and sisters,
This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.
I would like to share today that being authentic is just about the most important thing and just about the most important spiritual practice you can do, from my perspective. In particular, this means that if you or your inner parts or inner fragments don’t fully feel ready to forgive someone, then it is best to not forgive someone. After all, forgiving someone, when your inner parts or inner fragments don’t want that, would mean bulldozing your inner parts...
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